Confessing a sexual fantasy can be daunting, but believe it or not, deep down, we all share similar desires. While we often hide our erotic dreams and sexual fantasies, everyone has them. It’s important to highlight that sexual fantasies doesn’t necessarily mean it’s something you want to act on; it’s more a “curiosity” born from instinct and imagination. Letting your imagination run wild in the sensual realm can be risky, which is why we often keep our spiciest desires hidden.
According to a study by sexologist Wendy Maltz, 95% of men and women worldwide report having sexual fantasies (and the remaining 5% might be too embarrassed to admit it). These desires come naturally to human beings.
Role-playing is one of the most common sexual fantasies. Scenarios like teacher-student relationships, unexpected encounters with a superior, or being the one in control are frequent. It might seem strange, but everyday situations with familiar faces in our daily lives often spark our sexual curiosity.
Here are 25 of the most common sexual fantasies among women:
- Sex on the beach: A common fantasy for both men and women. Remember, sex in water requires the same protection as on land to prevent unwanted pregnancies and STIs.
- Oral sex: Both giving and receiving oral sex is a frequent fantasy. Sometimes, the anticipation makes it more enticing.
- Sex in a phone booth: Similar to store dressing rooms, the fear of being discovered adds to the allure.
- With a celebrity: Many women fantasise about actors, actresses, or famous personalities they admire.
- Sex with a stranger: The idea of not seeing the person again can ignite hidden passions.
- Sex at the office: Spending so much time at work can make it feel like home, adding to the fantasy’s excitement, especially if it’s with a superior.
- Blindfolded: Inspired by “50 Shades of Grey,” being blindfolded enhances desire by adding an element of the unknown.
- Being a stripper: Performing erotic dances is a common fantasy among women.
- Sex while guests are at home: The thrill of trying to stay quiet and not get caught can be very exciting.
- Sex with another woman: Women also fantasise about same-sex encounters.
- Stockholm syndrome: Role-playing scenarios involving a certain level of aggressiveness or even a kidnapper are common.
- Threesome: Women fantasise about threesomes, whether with two men or another woman.
- Sex with someone you know: Fantasising about a coworker, a friend’s partner, or even a family member is very common.
- Voyeurism: Having sex while being watched or watching others can be very arousing.
- Sex in an elevator: The confined space and risk of being caught add to the excitement.
- Sex on an aeroplane: The tiny, public space of an aeroplane bathroom is a popular fantasy.
- Affair with the gardener: Fantasies about employer-employee relationships are quite common.
- Affair with an older man: The experience and charm of an older man can be very appealing.
- Sex in a public bathroom: The risk of being caught increases the desire.
- Sex in water: Whether in the shower, sea, or pool, sex in water is a recurring fantasy.
- Teacher-student role-play: The authority and intelligence of a teacher make this a common fantasy.
- Sex with someone in authority: Uniformed men, like police officers or soldiers, can heighten sexual desire.
- BDSM: Fantasies involving bondage, discipline, domination, submission, and sadomasochism are popular, with submission being a key element.
- Sex in a cinema: The thrill of getting intimate in a public place like a cinema is very enticing.
- An orgy: Contrary to popular belief, women also fantasise about orgies.
This article was syndicated from Marie Claire Spain
Translated and adapted by Praise Vandeh, Marie Claire Nigeria Content Writer
