What is we told you we knew the top secrets of kissing with passion? First, Gordon Gallup, a Psychology Professor at the University at Albany, suggests that humans invented kissing to test the suitability of a partner. During a kiss, you gather information about the other person’s health and hormonal status.
So, even if you’ve found the right partner, you should continue kissing to keep your sex life vibrant. Helen Fisher, a Research Professor at Rutgers University, says that the testosterone in saliva triggers desire: “The more you kiss, the more desire you will feel, and thus you will enjoy sex more.”
Here are 5 effective ways of kissing
1. Use your imagination
In the magical moment involving four lips and two tongues, be creative! William Cane, author of “The Art of Kissing”, talks about a technique he calls “lip-o-suction.” While you gently kiss their upper lip, they should suck on your lower lip. Then switch roles. They will want to slip their tongue into your mouth, but don’t let them just yet—make them wait and build anticipation. Then, glide your tongue over their teeth, gums, and inner cheeks. The contrast between the hard enamel and the soft, moist mouth will stimulate his senses.
2, Strawberry-scented kisses
Remember Mickey Rourke feeding Kim Basinger strawberries in “9½ Weeks”? Dr. Krista Bloom, author of “The Ultimate Compatibility Quiz”, suggests eating a strawberry before kissing. Strawberries stimulate the taste buds, heightening your sense of taste during the kiss.
3. Enhance the experience
For a guaranteed way to captivate him, apply mint-flavoured lip gloss before kissing. This will stimulate the senses of touch, taste, and smell. Sexologist Ava Cadell says menthol activates nerve receptors, sending a stimulating sensation from the lips to the genitals. You can achieve a similar effect by sipping champagne or sparkling wine. The bubbles will tickle and excite your mouth before disappearing. However, menthol can irritate sensitive genital areas, so be sure to remove the lip gloss before engaging in oral sex.
4. Add a little roughness
Sadie Allison, author of *Ride’Em Cowgirl: Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking*, says that endorphins released during kissing heighten arousal and act as natural painkillers. Also, firm touches increase blood flow to erogenous zones, making nerve receptors more sensitive. While kissing, wrap your hand around his neck and pull him closer without breaking eye contact. As your lips meet, gradually intensify the kiss. Allison suggests being subtly dominant: “Use your strength wisely. Lightly bite his lower lip, run your fingers around his neck, and tug his hair while kissing him.”
5. Ignite the fire
For the most erotic kissing experience, Cadell recommends using the “face fusion” technique. In this kiss, the tongue and mouth mimic the actions of two people having sex: “First, rub your tongues together, then let them enter and exit each other’s mouths, just like intercourse. Wrap your lips around their tongue and suck passionately, as if performing oral sex.” From this point on, let your imagination take over.
Incorporating these secrets to kissing will ignite passion and deepen your connection with your partner. Why not try these tips tonight and see where the magic takes you?
This article was syndicated from Marie Claire Turkey
Translated and adapted by Praise Vandeh, Marie Claire Nigeria Content Writer
