You’ve come to the right place to learn which techniques you need for perfect oral sex.
First, stop thinking of oral sex as a chore or task. When you go down on your partner, just know that you have the power to give them the most intense orgasm of their life. However, you mustn’t rush. Start slowly and ensure you give your partner a taste of what’s coming next. Small kisses or using your tongue are the perfect moves to start with.
1. Preparation
According to relationship expert Laurel House, just like with everything else, you might need to make some preparations before giving oral sex to your partner. Firstly, you need to know that your mouth should be moist.
A dry mouth will cause discomfort for both you and your partner. You may need to tie your hair back to keep it from bothering you. Avoid using your teeth (except for some experienced tricks). Also, protect your teeth with your lips because sometimes teeth can damage the inner lips.
2. Stay focused
The key to successful oral sex is staying in dialogue with your partner and knowing what they like and dislike. Some may enjoy small bites, while others might just want to feel your lips. The same goes for women. Some women prefer focusing solely on their clitoris, while others may want to feel their partner’s tongue inside them.
First, make sure you know what turns your partner on the most. Stay focused during oral sex and apply the moves that will drive them wild. For your pleasure, let your partner discover the spots that turn you on the most. You can guide them with your hands, feet, or just your words.
3. Don’t rush
Sometimes just hinting at your intentions and delaying the action can be much more arousing. Women’s Sexual Wellness Consultant Mona Darling highly recommends this trick. When you both know the next step, stop rushing. Before starting, kiss your partner’s shoulders, chest, and arms, and then gradually move downwards. Let the excitement build up.
When you start oral sex, take a break just as your partner is about to reach orgasm, then start again. This way, by bringing them close to orgasm and then stopping, you can give them an unforgettable orgasm. Another tip: Never forget the angles. Your partner might want to watch you from different angles, so change positions occasionally.
4. Use lubricant
Using lubricant during sex always has its advantages. According to sex expert Dr Jess, using lubricant can increase the variety of positions and techniques. For example, while using your lips, you can use lubricant to make your hands much more effective.
When your partner uses their fingers on you while giving oral sex, applying lubricant can make it feel like multiple tongues are moving over your vagina. The only thing you need to pay attention to is using water-based lubricant.
5. Soft start
Ready to heat things? Never start oral sex quickly. Look into your partner’s eyes and start at a gentle pace, for instance, with small kisses. Use your tongue skillfully and slowly to make arousing touches. Gradually speed up and reach the desired tempo. Also, discard the idea that oral sex must end in orgasm. Oral sex before penetration can be the key to a stronger orgasm.
6. Triple action
This technique involves coordinating the hand, mouth, and tongue. Use all three parts rhythmically and simultaneously. This requires skill. Therefore, you can close your eyes and imagine you’re playing an instrument to achieve coordination. You won’t believe how rhythmic your fingers can be.
7. Don’t forget the testicles
Some men love having their testicles caressed, grasped, kissed, or sucked. Many don’t even have the slightest idea because they haven’t experienced it before. In reality, it is important to include the testicles. Focusing on your partner’s sensitive spots will make oral sex much more enjoyable.
8. Enjoy it
Men always have the same question in their minds when they are receiving oral sex: “Is my partner enjoying this right now?” Therefore, don’t forget to enjoy giving oral sex and let him know it. Suddenly detaching yourself from the act when your partner is about to orgasm will also decrease their pleasure.
9. Never stop them
Is your partner going down on you? Whatever the reason, don’t stop him. Most women tend to reject men who try to give them oral sex and come up with many excuses. But why would you stop someone trying to satisfy you? Let him do it.
This article was syndicated from Marie Claire Turkey
Translated and adapted by Praise Vandeh, Marie Claire Nigeria Content Writer
