In 2024, the traditional idea of “home, family, pet” is no longer a given. Research shows that more and more (young) people are embracing the single life nowadays. Whether it’s a conscious choice or not, one thing is clear: this trend significantly impacts society. But what’s behind it? Marie Claire Belgium spoke with an expert to explore this phenomenon further.
Embracing single life in 2024 and its impact on society
Changing social norms
In the last century, getting married and starting a family was almost a societal given. Today, however, we see a shift in social norms. Marriage and long-term relationships are no longer seen as the only way to find happiness and fulfilment in life. People feel less obligated to conform to traditional expectations and more often choose a lifestyle that makes them personally happy.
According to single and relationship coach Paulien, these trends reflect a broader cultural shift. “We see people valuing their freedom and autonomy more. The traditional structures of marriage and family life are no longer the sole standards for success and happiness,” she explains. “Moreover, the economic independence of women has had a huge impact. It gives women the freedom to choose a life without a partner if that suits them better.”
“On the day my first boyfriend ended our relationship, he said, ‘You know what it is with you? You don’t enjoy sex, you just endure it.’ I was shocked by his words because I knew he was right.”
Economic changes
In recent decades, women have made enormous strides in economic independence. With more opportunities for education and careers, many women choose to follow their path without relying on a partner for financial stability. This has led to an increase in the number of singles, as women now feel freer to make their own choices without societal pressure.
Personal priorities
For many people today, personal growth and career are high on the priority list, sometimes even higher than finding a partner. The pursuit of personal and professional goals often takes up a lot of time and energy, leading people to prioritise long-term relationships less. The drive for self-development and achieving personal milestones seems stronger than ever.
The rise of dating apps
The rise of dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge has made it easier to meet new people. While convenient, it also leads to a mentality of ‘choice overload.’ People are presented with endless options, making it harder to choose and commit to one person. The idea that there’s always a better option out there lingers in the minds of many. This ‘swipe culture’ contributes to the increase in singles, as the search for the perfect match seems never-ending.
The disappearing stigma
Finally, the stigma around being single is dwindling. Singles are no longer seen as an exception, and the notion that singles are ‘missing’ something in their lives is fading. Instead, society is increasingly accepting and even celebrating being single. And that’s not a bad development, in our opinion.
This article was originally published on Marie Claire BE
This article was syndicated from Marie Claire Netherlands
Translated and adapted by Praise Vandeh, Marie Claire Nigeria Content Writer
