I realised this year that the holiday season isn’t just about giving to others—it’s about giving to myself, too. For too long, I found myself caught up in the hustle, putting everyone else’s needs first and neglecting my own. But not this time. This year, I’m prioritising self-care, from glowing skin to power outfits and creating beauty rituals that feel more like an indulgence than obligation. If you’re ready to step into the holidays with confidence and radiance, here’s your ultimate self-care guide to make this season all about YOU.
Wardrobe therapy
I learned the magic of shopping in my wardrobe. It started as a chore—I dreaded facing the chaos—but quickly turned into a treasure hunt. That blazer I hadn’t touched in years? It’s now my go-to for evening soirées. A forgotten silk dress? Suddenly the star of my brunch outfit. Take an afternoon or two to declutter and rediscover your wardrobe. This holiday season, your wardrobe is your hidden gem— use it to shine!
Skin first, makeup second
I used to be the type who’d skip skincare in favour of more makeup to cover up my tired skin. But let me you: the real magic happens when you focus on the skin first. This year, I dedicated a little extra time each week to nourishing my skin with hydrating masks, exfoliating gently, and incorporating a vitamin C serum. The results? A complexion that glowed from within, with no need for heavy makeup. This holiday season, treat yourself to a hydrating mask like Cosrx Magnet Sheet Mask (₦4,500) and don’t forget to protect your skin with sunscreen, and I swear by the Uncover Sunscreen (₦22,000)—a must for melanin-rich skin. For a radiant glow, I love adding a vitamin C serum like Timeless Skin Care’s C-Esta Serum (₦40,000) to my routine. With these products, your skin will be your best accessory this holiday season.
Beauty rituals = me time
Beauty routines used to feel like a chore—rushed and uninspired. But one evening, I decided to make it special. I lit a candle, poured a glass of wine, played some mellow Afrobeats, and turned my bathroom into a mini spa. By the time I finished, I felt completely refreshed. That’s when it clicked: beauty rituals aren’t just about looking good—they’re about feeling amazing. This holiday season, give yourself permission to slow down and enjoy the process. Start with something indulgent, like a calming face massage using R&R Luxury’s Glow Oil (₦16,000). Follow it with a rich hand cream like Ajali Handmade Naturals’ Nourishing Buttercream (₦5,000) as you paint your nails in festive colours. Experiment with makeup—perfect your winged liner or try that glittery look you’ve been eyeing. Light a candle from Rekoja (₦35,000) and create a playlist that lifts your spirits. Your beauty routine isn’t just about the final look—it’s about cherishing those little moments of self-care.
Comfort is key (but make it fashionable)
Last December, after limping home from a party in too-tight heels, I vowed to prioritise comfort without sacrificing style. Enter: block-heels with just the right cushioning. They didn’t just save my feet—they saved my entire festive season. Here’s the secret to nailing comfy-chic: start with footwear that supports you through marathon shopping trips and holiday dinners—think sleek flats, block heels, or heeled boots that won’t betray you mid-party. Pair them with an oversized blazer for an effortlessly cool vibe, or a flowy dress that feels like a dream to wear. And for the ultimate cozy-chic look? A chunky knit that’s as stylish as it is snuggly. Comfort and fashion don’t have to compete—you can absolutely have both.
Hair that’s sleigh-worthy
For years, the holiday season meant a lot of rushing and even more “bad hair days.” But this year, I decided enough was enough—I was going to make my hair a priority. I ditched the product overload, embraced dry shampoo to keep my styles fresh, and got creative with braids. The transformation was undeniable: my hair looked as good at the end of the night as it did at the start. This season, give your hair the spotlight it deserves. Sleek ponytails or glossy waves are perfect for formal gatherings. For a festive twist, try braids adorned with beads that scream holiday glam. If you’re keeping it simple, a Bantu Knot. And don’t forget protective styles like twists or cornrows, which are not only low-maintenance but can be jazzed up with creative partings or accessories. These styles ensure you’re photo-ready, no matter the occasion!
The holiday survival kit
If there’s one lesson I’ve learned during the holiday frenzy, it’s this: being prepared saves the day—and your look. I can’t count the number of times I’ve been caught mid-party with smudged lipstick or a shiny T-zone, scrambling for a quick fix. Now, I never leave home without my trusted mini touch-up kit. Here’s the secret: pack a few essentials that work overtime. A travel-sized perfume ensures you stay fresh all evening while blotting papers keeps your skin shine-free without messing up your makeup. A hydrating mist doubles as a quick refresh for your face and a cool-down in crowded spaces. And don’t forget your signature lipstick—perfect for touch-ups and instantly pull your look together. With this arsenal by your side, you’ll be ready for anything the season throws your way—whether it’s an extra hour on the dance floor or an impromptu photo session.
This holiday season, let self-care be your statement piece. Prioritise your glow-up, celebrate your style, and step into every room looking and feeling like the main character. After all, you can’t sleigh the holidays without looking like a gift yourself.
