April is a month of refinement — embracing softness as strength. This Elevate & Illuminate edit is a curation of beauty, style, and rituals that replenish, invigorate, and inspire.
Softness is often mistaken for weakness, but I’ve found it to be one of the most powerful forces there is. Like water, it moves fluidly, reshaping everything in its path with quiet confidence. Lately, as I’ve been leading the team at Marie Claire Nigeria and balancing the weight of both vision and execution, I’ve realised more than ever that true power isn’t just about pushing forward — it’s about knowing when to lean back.
For me, that balance comes from the simple but essential things: sleeping well, eating well, staying just as motivated as I am calm. This month is about refinement — choosing what replenishes, what invigorates, what allows me to show up feeling my best. From lush lip colours that lift my mood to soul-refreshing skincare that resets my day, grounding fragrances to the art of mindful living, April’s edit of Elevate & Illuminate is a reminder that we should feel as good as we look.
Here’s to embracing the softer side of power — because effortless presence is still undeniable. These are my handpicked favourites for a deeply meaningful April:
Beauty, Refined: soft, rejuvenating, and invigorating
Keep your lips lush and effortlessly powerful
The softer side of power is just as compelling — fluid, effortless, and undeniably present. Like water, it heals as much as it consumes, shaping everything in its path without force. After last month’s deep dive into bold, high-impact colour, April’s balancing act is all about smooth, lush beauty. This edit leans into rich, soft hues, invigorating scents, and rejuvenating finds that refresh the soul from the skin.
Embrace softness with these:
Le Crayon Lèvres Longwear Lip Pencil in “Rouge Noir”
$35
Chanel
This is one of those little luxuries I can’t go without. The shade is that perfect deep wine — bold enough to add some drama but soft enough to blend into a nude lip. And the built-in blender? A game-changer. No harsh lines, no fuss, just smooth, seamless definition. It’s a versatile product that suits any mood, whether I’m keeping it simple or going full, fierce glam.
Gloss Bomb Heat Universal Lip Luminizer + Plumper in “Fenty Glow Heat”
₦47,000
Fenty Beauty
I love a good gloss – and this is a GOOD gloss. Rihanna wasn’t kidding — this stuff shines, plumps, and steals the whole show. The warm, rosy tint melts into my lips like it was made for them, and the way it catches the light? Unreal. One swipe and I was hooked. I know you’ll be too.
Rejuvenating from skin to soul
They say beauty is only skin deep, but the right products do so much more — they hydrate, protect, and uplift, working beneath the surface to keep your skin at its best. April’s finds are all about balance: lightweight yet deeply nourishing, protective without feeling heavy, and effortless in the way they enhance your routine.
Lean into soulful beauty with these:
HLR Drops
₦16,000
Arami Essentials
A staple in my routine, Arami’s “HLR Drops” are the everyday hydration my skin can’t go without. Lightweight yet deeply nourishing, they sink in effortlessly, leaving my skin feeling plump, supple, and refreshed. There’s no heaviness, no greasy residue — just pure, lasting moisture that makes my skin look and feel its best. Every drop is a little boost of hydration, and trust me, my skin drinks it up.
Hyalu B5 Aquagel SPF30
₦79,480
La Roche-Posay
This is exactly what anyone needs in this heat — lightweight, refreshing, and completely non-greasy. With Lagos’ temperatures pushing past 30 degrees, a sunscreen that feels heavy isn’t an option. This one melts right in, hydrates without the shine, and gives me the protection I need without that dreaded sticky feeling. An absolute staple!
Fragrances to lean on
Scent isn’t just about making a statement — it’s about support, about anchoring yourself in something that feels like you. The right fragrance doesn’t just linger; it uplifts, energises, and even grounds you when needed. The scents below have the kind of backbone that makes them more than just beautiful — they’re scents you can lean on, whether you need a boost of confidence, a moment of comfort, or a signature that stays with you long after you’ve left the room.
My invigorating, comforting scents are:
ÀÁNU
₦30,000
ÀÁDÙN
This scent is deeply invigorating — warm, bold, and full of life. The blend of almond, coffee, bergamot, and lemon creates a beautiful balance between comfort and energy, like a gentle wake-up call for the senses. I love massaging it into my skin after a bath; it lingers beautifully, leaving me feeling refreshed, recharged, and ready to take on the day.
Dylan Blue
₦204,000
Versace
I love Dylan Blue so much that I had to look up the creators — Calice Becker and Natalie Gracia-Cetto — and it makes perfect sense. The scent is a masterful balance of crisp fruit, soft florals, and warm musk, unfolding beautifully throughout the day. Fresh yet sensual, vibrant yet grounded, it has that rare quality of feeling both effortless and unforgettable. And the longevity? Impeccable. This one stays with you — in the best way. There’s also a Pour Homme version, but this? This is the one.
Style, Elevated: we’re securing the bag
I’m in my bag – can you tell?
The right bag isn’t just an accessory — it’s a statement, a signature, a finishing touch that ties everything together. I’m drawn to designs that balance function with artistry, blending rich textures, thoughtful details, and colours that breathe life into any look.
These bags don’t just carry your essentials — they carry presence:
Ciao Ciao in “Barolo”
$5,900
Bottega Veneta
This bag has been living in my head rent-free ever since Oshorena wrote about it as an investment piece. There’s something about its effortless versatility — the way it moves with you, adapting from structured to relaxed with a simple tuck of the flap. The craftsmanship is undeniable, from the intrecciato tramezza to the signature knot detailing, and that gold hardware? Chef’s kiss!
Toby Bag in “Green”
₦300,000
T.T.DALK
You know that lush, eye-catching shade of green instantly livens up any look? This bag is just that shade of green. It’s bold yet grounding, fresh yet timeless, and the kind of piece that reminds you of gardens, trees, and endless greenery while still feeling utterly sophisticated. The bamboo handle adds a touch of organic charm — like a nod to nature’s beauty.
Protect your eyes in style
It is so bright! And while I love a little sunshine, I love shielding my eyes in style even more. The perfect pair of sunglasses isn’t just about protection — it’s about attitude, effortless cool, and that finishing touch that pulls everything together.
These pieces bring just the right amount of style and shade:
Vintage Babe
₦60,000
Privé Revaux Eyewear
As an Ijaw woman who grew up in Port Harcourt, you just know I love my BIG sunglasses. There’s just something about an oversized frame that gives effortless confidence. This beautiful brown pair is the definition of versatile — elevated but easy, bold but wearable. Whether I’m dressing up or keeping it casual, they’re ready to go with anything.
Miu Glimpse sunglasses in “Slate Gray Lenses”
€390
Miu Miu
I love these. So demure and so effortlessly chic. They have that understated cool factor — the kind that doesn’t try too hard but still turns heads. The slate gray lenses add just the right amount of mystery, making them the perfect balance between sleek minimalism and tasteful luxury.
Mindful Living: as within, as without
Beauty beyond the skin
What you eat, what you drink, what you read, where you focus your attention — it all matters. Beauty isn’t just about what you put on your body but what you pour into it. A glowing complexion means little if the mind is depleted, or the spirit is running on empty. True beauty is a reflection of how well you nourish yourself — inside and out. Don’t tend to a body that is poor in spirit.
Feed your body and spirit with:
Natural Benefits: Sleep
₦3,000
Ahmad Tea
This tea is pure relaxation in a cup. A soothing fusion of chamomile, honey, and lavender, it’s the kind of blend that unwinds you from the inside out. It’s perfect for winding down after a long day or setting the tone for a restful night; with just one sip, you can feel the calm settling in.
Apple Cider Vinegar Gummies
$29.98
Goli
My aunt got these for me, and I have to say — I really like them. They help with digestion and bloating, making them a great addition to my routine. Plus, they taste way better than taking straight ACV! That said, always check in with your GP before adding supplements to your regimen, especially if you have any underlying conditions.
Keep your mind sharp
My mind is my biggest tool and weapon, so I keep it sharp by being intentional about what I consume. A good book isn’t just entertainment — it’s nourishment, perspective, and sometimes even a wake-up call. This month, I’m loving these two: one fiction, one non-fiction. Different genres, different styles, but both equally worth your time.
Check them out here:
Dream Count
₦15,000
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
I really like this book — it’s a very different side of Chimamanda, and that’s what makes it so special. After a ten-year hiatus, she returns with something fresh yet deeply resonant, a story of four women that lingers in the mind long after the last page. A lovely, thoughtful read that reminds you why she’s one of the greats.
The Power of Awareness
$5.99
Neville Goddard
I know I’ve said this before: as within, so without. This book made me so aware of what I give my attention to — because attention is currency, and I refuse to spend mine carelessly. Neville Goddard breaks down the power of consciousness in a way that’s both profound and practical. A must-read if you’re ready to step into intentional living.
The Season’s Affirmations
More than words, affirmations are anchors, reminders of the balance we strive for in our daily lives. This season’s affirmations are segmented to reflect the core themes of April’s letter, ensuring a holistic approach to personal power and equilibrium.
Each set of affirmations aligns with a guiding principle — from the art of creating balance to the dance of duality — offering a well-rounded perspective on what it means to live in harmony. As you move through the month, let these affirmations ground you in poise, strength, and intentionality.
These are the affirmations I offer to you:
Balance isn’t found — it’s created
I am intentional about the balance I cultivate, creating harmony in all areas of my life.
I am empowered to adjust, adapt, and realign whenever needed — balance is my birthright.
Where power meets poise
I am both bold and graceful, knowing that true power is steady and assured.
I am confident in my presence, commanding respect with ease and elegance.
Harmony in motion, strength in stillness
I am at peace with movement and stillness, knowing that each serves its purpose.
I am strong when I pause, and powerful when I flow — I honour both energies within me.
The sweet spot between ambition and ease
I am deeply driven yet gentle with myself, trusting that success does not require struggle.
I am worthy of rest, knowing that relaxation fuels my creativity and resilience.
Mastering the dance of duality
I am fluid yet grounded, embracing the beauty of contrasts within me.
I am limitless because I honour all sides of myself — light and shadow, softness and strength.
In April, let us embody power in its softest, most radiant form
Beauty isn’t just about aesthetics — it’s about balance, intention, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing you’re taking care of yourself, inside and out.
This edition of Elevate & Illuminate is a testament to the power of refinement — not in excess, but in the careful curation of what truly enhances your world. From a lip colour that empowers to a fragrance that grounds, each choice reflects the softness, resilience, and beauty within.
As we close out our Power Issue and prepare to unveil our cover, consider this your reminder that true strength is fluid, effortless, and deeply felt. Power isn’t always loud — sometimes, it’s found in the quiet luxury of self-care, the intentionality of what you wear, and the way you carry yourself through the world.
Here’s to moving with grace, confidence, and an unshakeable sense of self.
Love always,
