For this edition of #GistMe, we speak to Anita, a young woman who wanted to explore her relationship with her partner by adding a second body to their bed.
Gist Me
Gist Me is a vibrant, unfiltered column exploring the ever-evolving landscape of intimate relationships around the world. Named after the beloved slang women use when anticipating “piping hot tea,” it dives straight into the heart of romance, desire, drama, and the delicious complications that make modern love so endlessly intriguing.
From sex stories that reveal our secret longings to candid reflections on connection, conflict, and emotional truth, Gist Me creates a space where openness thrives. It invites readers to lean in, laugh, blush, and recognise themselves in the intimate narratives that shape how we love — and why we keep coming back for more.
I’ve always wanted to understand how you know when you have found the one for you. Or if people believed that there was someone specific that you’re destined to be with.
All my girlfriends are trying to manifest a rich husband; if he’s not rich, they don’t want to hear from him. The internet and society have long argued about whether a woman needs a rich husband.


