Here’s how to celebrate Valentine’s Day based on your love language

With the long holiday and January finally behind us, love is in the air as we prepare for the next hallmark holiday: Valentine’s Day.

Whether you are boo’d up, happily single, or somewhere in between (don’t worry, we don’t judge) this Valentine’s Day, one thing is certain: love should be celebrated the way you like it. Enter: love languages!

If you’ve never heard of love languages, let me put you on. Dr. Gary Chapman—author, speaker, and counsellor— came up with five: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts. Think of them as a roadmap that helps you discover how best to show and receive love in a way that makes you feel truly seen and appreciated.

Now, let’s get into how you (or your partner) can make the most of the most romantic day of the year, according to your love language:

Words of affirmation: Love with your words

If you are like me, words are the key to your heart, and the rightly strung words make your heart do somersaults. Then, heartfelt messages are the way to go this Valentine’s Day. Tell your partner exactly how much they mean to you. Think handwritten love letters, emails reminding them how much they mean to you, or voice notes they can replay all day. If you are single, write yourself a love letter (yes, seriously!) or have a “Galentine’s” affirmation exchange with your besties. Words do matter, so make them count!

Bring back love letters via Pinterest

Acts of service: Actions speak louder than roses

As a first daughter, I have to admit that acts of service seriously get me going. There is something beautiful about seeing your partner look for ways to make your life easier and vice versa. This Valentine’s, go beyond chocolates and do something that lightens their load or ticks off something on their to-do list. Cook their favourite meal, fix their car, run that errand they keep putting off, or surprise them by cleaning up their space. And if you’re flying solo, show yourself some love by ticking off a task hanging over your head. Love is in the details!

Show your partner how much you care with acts of service via Westend61

Receiving gifts: More than just a box of chocolates

Before you roll your eyes, this is not about materialism but thoughtfulness! If gifts make you feel cherished, a meaningful present will improve your Valentine’s Day. It could be a book they have been eyeing, a framed photo of a special moment, or even a DIY coupon book filled with things like “One Free Massage.” And hey, single ladies, who says you can’t treat yourself? Buy that bottle of perfume, purse or dress you’ve been debating over—you deserve it!

Get a gift that makes your partner feel known and loved via Prostock-studio/Shutterstock

Quality time: Be present, not just there

Nothing says “I love you” like undivided attention. If quality time is your jam, ditch the distractions and focus on each other. Plan a date night—a cosy dinner at home, a scenic picnic, or a weekend getaway. No scrolling, no multitasking, just good old-fashioned connection. And if you’re celebrating solo, spend the day doing something you love, from binging your favourite show, going on a solo adventure, or FaceTiming with someone who makes you laugh.

Let the world fade away as you spend quality time with your partner via Pinterest

Physical touch: Hugs, cuddles & all the snuggles

For you, love is felt through touch, so this Valentine’s, don’t hold back! Give your partner the longest, warmest hug, hold their hand just because, or plan an at-home spa night complete with massages. If you’re single, treat yourself to a self-care night—think cosy blankets, and a warm bath. Love, in any form, deserves to be felt!

Love up on your partner this Valentine’s Day via Pinterest

Valentine’s is about celebrating love in a way that feels authentic to you. So, make it meaningful whether you’re showering a partner, your best friends, or yourself with love. And remember: no matter your love language, everyone deserves a little romance—even if it’s just from you to you!

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  • Inem is the Features Editor at Marie Claire Nigeria. A multimedia storyteller with an insatiable curiosity, she is always in search of a good story. She can often be found with her headphones on, lost in music or having fascinating conversations with strangers.

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